I find waxing to be the more efficient when it comes to hair removal, because there hair won’t grow back for WEEKS. And the more you do it, the longer it takes to grow back and when the hair does grow back, its so fine. I do use some hair removal creams that are for sensitive skin and those have actually worked really well whenever Im hiding from my wax lady (I hate that place man). I avoid razors unless its for my armpits because I don’t care if the skin gets rough. So definitely avoid using it on your legs.
Anon
3 years ago
How do I move on from the messaging stage to phone calls then meet up?
Is it wise to face time before meeting up?
And should I just let the guy make these moves and I just ‘hint’ at him because I’d rather a man leads?
“I saw that new place in london, we should go there one day it’d be so fun” – You hint you want to see him, without actually asking. Now he knows that you expect to at least see him
Limit social life, in fact, get rid of it all together. The only you chat to people is on groupchats and that occasional link up.
Library is your best friend. Find a good library thats buff and go there everyday, even when you don’t have work to do. Go there to organise your week. I would sit in the library just for alone time whilst I figure out how to plan my week and assignments. Because it got me used to be there and doing work. So when I did need to to do work, I would sit there for hours not doing anything but work. I’d get right to it.
Contact your tutors and find out what exactly it is they want in the assignment. Because its not about what you think they want, but what they actually want FROM YOU. Get that in clear writing.
Anon
3 years ago
So I thread my upper lip but for some reason there are noticeable hairs under my lower lip. Should I consider threading the under the lower lip or just leave it?
Il
Kinda. You gotta say at least you’re looking for a job and that right now, you are financially stable i.e: you got savings. When someone doesn’t work and is quite complacent, it comes across like you lack motivation and don’t really have drive if I’m being honest. And that isn’t attractive. If I went on a first date with a guy and he said he’s not working, and he’s not really fussed about trying to get one… I’ll be like ehhh and not see him again LMAO.
Anon
3 years ago
I have a friend who doesn’t call me back when I end up giving her a missed call. I try again after a couple of weeks then after a month and she never picks up or bothers to return the calls. Also she never responds to my messages or snaps. But then she randomly calls after months and months. I’m not being funny or anything but during these months she’s changed her bitmoji on snap numerous times and her snapscore has gone up in the thousands.
Should I continue with having her as a friend or should I just delete her number?
Some people that are depressed ignore people like this and go into themselves. Is your friend having a hard time maybe? Or a busy career? It’s also one thing to not look at your messages for a few days and it’s another thing to leave people on “read”. Being left in read is super rude. Has she done this and ignoring you on purpose? If so then it’s toxic. If not I don’t think you should take it personal. Just ask what she’s been up to and wait for a reply. Or even ask if things are ok with her.
But honestly you have to ask yourself if you are okay with this behaviour. Some people are okay with it and some aren’t. But this is your life and your friendship, if you don’t like it and it’s hurting you then, you can end the friendship. It honestly depends. But what I will say is after the last 2 years, niggas are going through some shit. Extend your friends some grace. Its very hard to have high maintenance friendships in this current climate I’ll be real with you. If I wasn’t living with my husband, I’d probably be alone most of the time and see my friends my regular once every 2 weeks. The will to go out and leave my house is at an all time ZERO.
Stop relying too much on this friendship is what I would say. Don’t hold her to a standard when she is obvious just going to disappoint you, just appreciate the times you guys get to reconnect. Honestly enjoy it. Because as you get older, sustaining friendships are just going to get harder.
Anon
3 years ago
So a guy at told all his friends he likes me but never made a move. It’s been 5 years now – I never gave it much thought as I wasn’t looking to get married but anyways, we went to different universities after sixth form and he just came across my mind last year and a couple of months ago I came across his profile on MM.
Also one of my friends told me he is seeing someone but not sure if this was ‘old news’ (this was before I signed up to MM)
Should I shoot my shot or not?
The dating app is MM and he ‘visited’ my profile – He didn’t ‘like’ it as photos were blurred and didn’t have any info for my bio etc including my name (just put in a random username).
Most people still have their exes in their lives to some degree and thats until they get married really. It depends on if they talk or communicate, and if thats the case, I wouldn’t waste my time. But if they just follow each other then it’s not that deep imo. Eventually one of them is going to unfollow.
Anon
3 years ago
So I matched with someone on a dating app and after a few exchanges he wants to have phone calls.
Is he moving too fast?
Girls need to differentiate when someone is being fast and when they’re actually being intentional. He knows what he wants i.e: getting to know you, so he’s trying to get to know you.
I’ve never shaved my legs before, what products should I use?
Obvs I shave my underarms and down there – but it’s with a cheap razor and soap. – should I do the same with my legs?
I find waxing to be the more efficient when it comes to hair removal, because there hair won’t grow back for WEEKS. And the more you do it, the longer it takes to grow back and when the hair does grow back, its so fine. I do use some hair removal creams that are for sensitive skin and those have actually worked really well whenever Im hiding from my wax lady (I hate that place man). I avoid razors unless its for my armpits because I don’t care if the skin gets rough. So definitely avoid using it on your legs.
How do I move on from the messaging stage to phone calls then meet up?
Is it wise to face time before meeting up?
And should I just let the guy make these moves and I just ‘hint’ at him because I’d rather a man leads?
Just say straight up
“I saw that new place in london, we should go there one day it’d be so fun” – You hint you want to see him, without actually asking. Now he knows that you expect to at least see him
What’s your Myers Briggs type?
It’s always either Advocate or Commander. Every year its the same out of those two
Any tips for 3rd year of Uni?
Limit social life, in fact, get rid of it all together. The only you chat to people is on groupchats and that occasional link up.
Library is your best friend. Find a good library thats buff and go there everyday, even when you don’t have work to do. Go there to organise your week. I would sit in the library just for alone time whilst I figure out how to plan my week and assignments. Because it got me used to be there and doing work. So when I did need to to do work, I would sit there for hours not doing anything but work. I’d get right to it.
Contact your tutors and find out what exactly it is they want in the assignment. Because its not about what you think they want, but what they actually want FROM YOU. Get that in clear writing.
So I thread my upper lip but for some reason there are noticeable hairs under my lower lip. Should I consider threading the under the lower lip or just leave it?
Il
Wax girl, wax. All you need is a little wax.
Would guys find it off putting if I’m unemployed at the courting stage?
Kinda. You gotta say at least you’re looking for a job and that right now, you are financially stable i.e: you got savings. When someone doesn’t work and is quite complacent, it comes across like you lack motivation and don’t really have drive if I’m being honest. And that isn’t attractive. If I went on a first date with a guy and he said he’s not working, and he’s not really fussed about trying to get one… I’ll be like ehhh and not see him again LMAO.
I have a friend who doesn’t call me back when I end up giving her a missed call. I try again after a couple of weeks then after a month and she never picks up or bothers to return the calls. Also she never responds to my messages or snaps. But then she randomly calls after months and months. I’m not being funny or anything but during these months she’s changed her bitmoji on snap numerous times and her snapscore has gone up in the thousands.
Should I continue with having her as a friend or should I just delete her number?
Some people that are depressed ignore people like this and go into themselves. Is your friend having a hard time maybe? Or a busy career? It’s also one thing to not look at your messages for a few days and it’s another thing to leave people on “read”. Being left in read is super rude. Has she done this and ignoring you on purpose? If so then it’s toxic. If not I don’t think you should take it personal. Just ask what she’s been up to and wait for a reply. Or even ask if things are ok with her.
But honestly you have to ask yourself if you are okay with this behaviour. Some people are okay with it and some aren’t. But this is your life and your friendship, if you don’t like it and it’s hurting you then, you can end the friendship. It honestly depends. But what I will say is after the last 2 years, niggas are going through some shit. Extend your friends some grace. Its very hard to have high maintenance friendships in this current climate I’ll be real with you. If I wasn’t living with my husband, I’d probably be alone most of the time and see my friends my regular once every 2 weeks. The will to go out and leave my house is at an all time ZERO.
Stop relying too much on this friendship is what I would say. Don’t hold her to a standard when she is obvious just going to disappoint you, just appreciate the times you guys get to reconnect. Honestly enjoy it. Because as you get older, sustaining friendships are just going to get harder.
So a guy at told all his friends he likes me but never made a move. It’s been 5 years now – I never gave it much thought as I wasn’t looking to get married but anyways, we went to different universities after sixth form and he just came across my mind last year and a couple of months ago I came across his profile on MM.
Also one of my friends told me he is seeing someone but not sure if this was ‘old news’ (this was before I signed up to MM)
Should I shoot my shot or not?
The dating app is MM and he ‘visited’ my profile – He didn’t ‘like’ it as photos were blurred and didn’t have any info for my bio etc including my name (just put in a random username).
Why not. Like his profile, if he’s interested, he’ll let you know.
Sometimes men need a little nudge so give him it. If he doesn’t respond, close that chapter and move on.
Should I consider a guy (23) who still has his ex from school on his socials?
Most people still have their exes in their lives to some degree and thats until they get married really. It depends on if they talk or communicate, and if thats the case, I wouldn’t waste my time. But if they just follow each other then it’s not that deep imo. Eventually one of them is going to unfollow.
So I matched with someone on a dating app and after a few exchanges he wants to have phone calls.
Is he moving too fast?
No, he’s being intentional.
Girls need to differentiate when someone is being fast and when they’re actually being intentional. He knows what he wants i.e: getting to know you, so he’s trying to get to know you.