Hi Sisters,
I just wanted advice on my current life situation. i’ve been dating men who we’re neither financially ready, bums and people who if i look at my standards they’re way below them.
Recently i’ve been having an existential crisis. Trying to figure out why i make the decisions that i do, i’ve been trying to be more self aware but i would like insight from someone outside. Id really like to change this about myself and be more confident and also to stop wasting time in finding someone who’s my potential.
As harsh as this may sound you don’t have standards. I think some woman *think* they have standards and will entertain bums and leave that situation and still think they have standards. You don’t have standards when your self esteem is so low to entertain a bum. I find also a girl will entertain a bum for male validation. Receiving No male validation is better than validation from a bum.
take a huge step back from dating and fall in love with yourself!
We accept the love we think we deserve