Hi girls
I've recently stopped talking to someone who I feel like I was in love with due to some external factors. we weren’t in a relationship as I didn’t want it to have that bf and gf label but we were talking about marriage and heading in that direction.
I’m really struggling with how to get over this/him. Part of me says I won’t find someone like him again who will be so sweet to me but another part says I’m still young so ofc I will find someone who will also treat me well. I’m keeping myself busy and trying not to to think about him but it’s when I have any alone time that hes constantly in my head.
If I'm completely honest with you sis, I think you have put more value than what it actually was. And this is probably why it's taking you a lot longer to move on. From a 3rd person's perspective, it sounds like it was more of a situationship, and for that reason- you will ALWAYS find something better than whatever crumbs someone was offering you. Exactly you're young, don't limit yourself by thinking you'll never do better because its not true.
Like Whitney said "listen to men with your eyes not your ears because they will tell you what you wanna hear"